Dear Generation Ratchete'

This week's question:

As we venture more into adulthood the urgency to settle down invades the world of a woman. As we stare at the invisible clock that lingers over our heads some women have chosen to pull out all the stops to deem themselves worthy anytime they encounter a "good catch" #Question1 In a generation where men are now considering themselves the "commodity" are these legit expectations that should be delivered AND when should they be delivered?  #Question2 What are some legit expectations of a male?

Want to know what the leader of Generation Ratchete' Thinks...

Why I asked this question:

Believe or not I actually stumbled upon this post on instagram one night a few months ago and had to do a double take. I kept re-reading it thinking "Got Damn no wonder why I don't have a man" I asked the question because I wanted to know is this list a real reflection of what a man expects. Like is my mans out here waiting for me to do a back bend in the bedroom, get up and cook, and then head to work all while keeping my edges in tact and pushing him towards his dreams

Answer I said YASS to:  

Reasoning:

I was once so far gone in a situationship that I didn't understand that I was pouring into someone that wouldn't even sprinkle into my well being. I knew I had fallen off the deep end when I was washing his clothes with no title in sight. From MY FIELD EXPERIENCE I don't think that these are expectations that should be delivered to every guy you encounter. Now I'm not saying to put up this brick wall and put NO on repeat all I'm saying is that every guy does not deserve your all. Hell and some don't deserve a quarter piece. To guys if you aren't ready to provide for her like her father/grandfather then don't expect her to be in the kitchen cooking your mom/grandmother

Xoxo Kolleh

Guru of the Ratchete' Generation